Lung lymphnodes

I am a healthy 80 year young woman
Diagnosed lungcancer
1 lunglymphnode is 4x reg size
the other one 2x the reg. size
Pet scan still to be done
MRI from head negative
I had a good life.
Now I'd like to go for quality over quantity.

QQ What questions to ask the Oncologits?
Can I refuse any treatments as this is not cureble?
Regards Sharon

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